Mother of teen killed in Salt Lake City murder-suicide pushed for Utah law to protect children

Just months before police say Leah Moses’ ex-husband killed her teenage son, Moses met with a Utah lawmaker to push for more stringent state protections for children at the center of child custody cases.

She and a group of others joined Sen. Todd Weiler to discuss sponsoring a Utah version of “Kayden’s Law,” which gives states that strengthen their child custody laws access to federal support intended for judges and other court officials to undergo domestic violence training.

Weiler was interested in the measure, but by the time the bill was drafted, it was late enough in the session that he didn’t believe it would pass, he told The Salt Lake Tribune. So Weiler decided to table the proposed legislation until 2024.

About two months after the session ended, Om Moses Gandhi was killed by his father in a murder-suicide on May 13, Salt Lake City police said — three weeks after a custody evaluator recommended that Moses receive full custody of the 16-year-old boy.

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HOw Does FAMILY Really Work?

So you think you are ready for family court to help with the break up of your marraige, a custody dispute or allegations of domestic violence handled outside of police? 

In family court there are no juries, and you are probably going to need a lawyer to understand what is going on. For those who can’t afford a lawyer, you are going to spend a long time in the self- help line. There are words you won’t understand and processes that make no sense. If you have to represent yourself, a judge will tell you that you have to know the law, even if you have never been to law school.

The myth about community property ? That is easily avoided by claiming your ex is crazy or abusive. 

What matters most in family court? Your ex spouse’s lawyer and the assigngment of the judge. It only takes one spouse with a secret, or disgrace so great, they will pay a lawyer their life time savings  just to keep that secret from coming out. In family court there is no jury, and rarely is the media or public watching. 

Think you can’t afford a lawyer? They are going to get the money out of you someway. Retainers can run $50-100,000  and the lawyers are happy to put a lien on your house, bank accounts and paycheck to make sure they get paid. 

Any divorce or family law case will go the wrong direction with the right attorney. Divorce cases of lawyers and wealthy former spouses in Caliofrnia shows just how that looks. 

In San Diego, attorney Jeff Walker was overheard talking to his attorney buddy, Mike Young, about how to bury a domestic violence case and protect his law firm, back in 2015. Walker reportedly did not file for divorce until 2021. The six years of plotting allowed Walker to hide money from his wife through  his law firm. Money hidden in trust accounts and concealed files she would never find, or get half of. Walker told his lawyer buddies. 

In Silicon Valley, a former nanny married,  to wealthy real estate developer was approached by divorce attorneys Brad Baugh and Sharon Roper, claiming  they could get women more than their fair share in a divorce  by claiming a husband was abusive. The evil legal duo wrecked through the counnity. 

In Santa Clara County Jim Hoover was heard at WomenSV claiming he had billed $350,000 to a mother married to a a big real estate titan and never did any legal work as he threw her case. 

In Los Angeles, real estate attorney Reid Breitman was overheard telling  his attorney buddies how he would use his law firm to screw his former wife. For years before the divorce, Breitman reportedly set up slush funds with settlement money brought in by deals made with Thomas Giaradi. These deals included buying houses for attorneys and sitting judges and laundering money which the FBI did nothing about. Former Chief Justice Bigelow and divorce attorney Chrisphopher Melcher was in on the housing scam with Breitman from LA to Silicon Valley. 

These lawyers are drainig all the money from community estates and laundering much of it through their attorney trust accounts and equity found in the family homes of splitting spouses and their children. 

So how do these upper middle class families get wiped out in family court? This year, some folks have gotten together to explain how it works. 

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Emotional Mom said Family Court Judge gave her child to a Violent Abuser and Pedophile!

Emotional Mom said Family Court Judge gave her child to a Violent Abuser and Pedophile!

Clark County Nevada

June 14, 2023

Veterans In Politics video interview of Jessica Church on Saturday, June 10, 2023 guest cohost Michael McDonald.

Here is a small breakdown of this powerful and emotional interview…. 

Church started the interview by stating that her child was given to a pedophile.

Church said that her daughter’s father has violated the court order for 50/50 custody and Judge Michele ‘Shell’ Mercer has ignored the contempt of court.

Church talks about her mother who allegedly had her children take naked photos of her.

Church said the Judge and Metro turned a blind eye to the anal fissure on her daughter.

Church said the doctors concluded that there is sexual assault of a minor who was 4 years old at the time of the abuse.

Church said that the lead investigator for Child Protective Services (CPS) refused to meet with her.

Church said that the father of her child a career criminal strangled her and left her in the woods for dead, who has a history of domestic violence charges.

Church said that Judge Mercer accused her of using drugs because she colored her hair.

Church claimed that she has never used drugs.

There were no supervised visits for the father.

Church very emotionally charged claimed that she has a secret recording of her daughter now six-year-old naming people who have sexually assaulted her.

Church said that Judge Mercer is having a secret meeting off the record in her chambers regarding an Order to Show Cause.

At the end of the interview, Church named everyone she believes participated in a sexual act against her daughter.

We don’t want to say anymore but this video described the events that took place.

Some of these claims are hard to believe but after investigating the litigant’s claims in family court for the past several years, nothing is hard to believe. 

Explosive Emotional and Powerful interview click on the link below: 

Jessica Church said a family court judge gave her kid to a domestic violence abuser and pedophile 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQpEkZaDqGw&t=20s

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No Contact The Truth

What Is Quanta Freedom Healing?

I didn’t grow up dreaming of becoming a Quanta Freedom Healer! It was a long journey to get to where I am today, and one I would never have taken had I not been completely broken by abuse.

Today I want to tell you a little about that journey, and explain all about what Quanta Freedom Healing is, and how it came about.

This will help you to understand why Quanta Freedom Healing can work for you, even if you feel hopeless, helpless and as though you’ve already tried everything possible to heal from abuse – I felt that way too!

Most of all, I want to give you hope that you can not only recover from your pain, but you can create a life that is even more fulfilled, joyful and expanded than before the narcissist came into your life – the life you deserve!

 

 

Video Transcript

Today, I will answer a question that many of you have asked: What is Quanta Freedom Healing? To explain it as best as I can, I need to explain how it came about, because it’s not like I knew I was going to become a Quanta Freedom healer. I certainly didn’t.

 

The Breakdown Epiphany Moment

Like a lot of us, I went through significant narcissistic abuse. At that time, I was researching narcissism, and a specialist was helping me understand who the man in my life was.

Even though I also joined post-traumatic stress disorder groups and narcissistic abuse forums and was getting answers about narcissism, I was still hooked. I was obsessing and ruminating, and I couldn’t stop breaking No Contact. Eventually, I had a complete psychotic and adrenal breakdown.

I’d already lost much property, reputation and the ability to function normally. I hadn’t eaten or slept properly for six months. I was only 80 pounds. All of my hair had fallen out. I was already in a really bad state. When the breakdown happened, I honestly believed the professionals who told me I’d never recover or return from it.

I started planning how to leave the planet because I didn’t want to go on. While thinking about how to do that, I had a voice in my head that kept saying to me, “No, there’s another way. There’s another way.”

I was arguing with this voice, and then I walked into my bathroom and fell to the floor. I put my hands up and screamed, “I can’t do this anymore. Help me.” I was calling out to God, a Higher Power, and I didn’t know what else to do.

At that moment, I had a profound experience: it was like my head opened, and everything I’d previously believed was sucked out of me. What entered into its place was a this deep, powerful knowing, and a voice spoke to me, telling me what had happened; why it had happened; how this person was a catalyst in my life who was showing me all the parts of myself that were unhealed and unconscious; and that it wasn’t about him – rather it was about healing me.

Then I got catapulted into the future. I saw and felt myself as healed, whole and Thriving, and I felt like I’d never felt ever before. Then I got flung back into who I was, emaciated, shaking, sweating. I wasn’t healed, but I knew I could heal. I’d been told how to start this from the inside out, and that I would be supported in this journey.

I chose that path from that day. The voice had instructed me to turn within, to speak to myself as if I loved myself like a small child. Something astounding happened. The intense psychotic episodes disappeared without the need for medication. Then synchronicity started happening. I met people and got downloads, information and clues about inner healing modalities, which I’d never looked at before, even though I’d been doing personal development and spirituality for decades.

Then I studied Theta Healing, Kinesiology and EFT and other modalities. I became certified, and started putting together a combination of tools to heal myself, which at the time I called “Holographic Healing”. I was getting really good results. Complicated Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) was melting away. I was starting to feel more connected and more whole than I’d ever felt before, in spite of my losses.

 

The Breakthrough Healing Moment

However, I had a persistent agoraphobia that made me feel unsafe in open spaces due to the trauma of narcissistic abuse. I was trying everything I could to heal myself. I was researching quantum physics and neuroscience and trying to assemble protocols. I was outsourcing the best of the best healers without success in shifting it. It happened that a girlfriend was going to Ko Samui, but I couldn’t go with her. She told me, “Come later,” but I was worried about how I’d manage the trip alone since I have agoraphobia and can’t even go to the shop without becoming a meltdown.

Despite this, I knew I had to go. So I did, and it was one of the most traumatising experiences of my life. I eventually got there, collapsed into her arms, and we went to the resort, where I felt safe again. After that, I could enjoy the holiday, but I still wanted to get out into Ko Samui, and I knew I couldn’t.

One day, alone in the hotel room, I set an intention that I was going to channel the healing answer to my agoraphobia. I opened up my heart, mind, and soul and immediately I started taking dictation. I was writing down protocols and healing steps. They were things that I knew in regard to Kinesiology and Theta Healing, but there were also things that I didn’t know, which were a deeper timeline aspect, more compartments of the subconscious to access. And there were also Source downloads that were much more impactful, richer, and bigger than I’d been used to.

Even though I didn’t know the details, I had goosebumps when they came to me (you may understand what I’m saying). I applied the first-ever Quanta Freedom Healing to myself, and two hours later, I was in Ko Samui, more playful, confident and connected to people than I had ever been my entire life. I knew something astounding had just happened.

I returned to Melbourne and stopped doing Holographic Healing with my clients. I said, “No, we’re doing Quanta Freedom Healing.” I discovered that their deep, persistent trauma was shifting as well.

Many of my clients had other therapists, psychologists, or domestic violence workers, and these therapists rang me up and asked, ” My client today was different than yesterday. What happened?” Then they came to see me for a Quanta Freedom Healing – because a lot of practitioners have got their own trauma too.

Through word of mouth, my business exploded. I had more clients than I could handle, and I knew I needed to create a healing program because news of Quanta Freedom Healing spread overseas. People that couldn’t even get to me were contacting for sessions.

Since its birth 15 years ago, the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program has helped tens of thousands of people from 150 different countries worldwide heal and release inner trauma with the Quanta Freedom Healing modules. I also have other programs that have been instrumental in helping people achieve this goal.

Before I explain more about Quanta Freedom Healing, it’s important for me to explain why healing from the inside out is vital.

 

Why Can’t We Heal Logically?

We know from our real-life experience that the obsession and the rumination that goes with narcissistic abuse are crazy. What ends up happening is that we are doing “stinking thinking”. We’re trying to think out of our obsessional thinking and get an answer or information that will give us closure and peace, but it just doesn’t work.

Why doesn’t it work? The reason is because the seat of our trauma and our painful programs is in our body. They’re not in our head. Wonderful neuroscientists such as Joe Dispenza, Bruce Lipton, the late Candace Pert, and others, are now explaining to the world why the brain follows the body.

For example, I want you to say, “I think devastated,” and feel into it, then follow it up with “I think traumatised.”

These statements are disconnected. They’re like caveman talk. These statements should be, “I feel devastated. I feel traumatised,” because they’re going on in your body.

You cannot get into your body and heal logically – that’s like trying to access your television from a radio frequency. When we are in our head we are not healing what’s going on inside of us. Rather, we’re thinking about what hurts, causing more identification with our trauma, which makes it worse.

Now let’s look at trying to recover logically from another angle. What if you were hit by a car, lying on the road, bleeding, and people yelled at you to get up? Or went after the driver, and start tracking and researching him? You would not heal and may not survive. Ask yourself how many times have you told yourself to get on with it, or researched narcissism without attending to your inner wounds? Only inner healing heals your inner wounds, no different to physical wounds needing attention.

Just because you can’t see your inner trauma doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. We have yet to realise that our inner emotional system is as powerful as our inner physical system when given the right environment and conditions to produce healing.

Now imagine you had an abscess and tried to put some cream and a bandage over it. It’s not going to get better. Lancing it and releasing the toxic infection creates space inside to heal. It’s exactly the same with internal trauma – it has to be released to create space for healing. Quanta Freedom Healing is incredibly effective because it does this. Whereas trying to ‘think’ it out keeps the trauma trapped inside.

 


 

What Is Quanta Freedom Healing?

Quanta Freedom Healing is the core component of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) and my other healing programs. These are audio healings that can be accessed from any device. Quanta Freedom Healing takes you into a deep theta brainwave, which bypasses the logical brain, to access inside your body, even if you’ve been struggling with rumination and obsession.

This level of healing is not just relaxation, it has intentions and energetic codes that access your subconscious. All you have to do open up, breathe, and follow my voice, and a few simple instructions. In fact, the less you do, the better the process works on you.

Quanta Freedom Healing loads up the trauma from different parts of your subconscious and releases it, which frees space inside you to receive the download of the True Source replacement, on whatever topic you’re working on. That gives you a shift out of  Who you were being, into your Higher Self potential on that topic.

This feels like relief, a release. It feels like space. Where that trauma once was, there is now the space for the healing – which is inspiration, outer solution and support – to enter. It’s the calm, the power and the wisdom to know what to do. As you get better on the inside, you do so much better on the outside. Support, synchronicity and miracle start to enter your life. Resolution and solution come in greater ways than you could imagine possible.

Narcissists can’t stand against with regular Quanta Freedom Healing work.  They’re a False Self in a lower consciousness of deceit and darkness. You have become a bright Light; fearless, with Source partnering you, no longer handing over narcissistic supply (fear and pain). With Quanta Freedom Healing, narcissists stop harassing you, leave your experience, capitulate, lose against you in court. You win custody, get good settlements, alienated children return to you. These breakthroughs and much more are common occurrences in our Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) Community.

Quanta Freedom Healing grants you a much deeper tool than the logical, practical experience that we’ve been trying to use to heal from abuse. Thank goodness, because narcissistic abuse is a battle for your soul! You know its spiritual – the insane feelings of being psychically infiltrated and having your life-force sucked out of you is not logical and practical.

Deep inner somatic healing is spiritual. It’s where healing has to take place.

We need a deeper healing solution.

 

Usual Quanta Freedom Healing Timeframes

Most people, from the first healing, feel it. If you’ve done a Quanta Freedom Healing you know that you feel relief, space and better. Generally, within one to three weeks, the obsessive rumination will start to calm down enough that you can eat, sleep, and function. Within one to three months, so much of your trauma will have melted, relieving disorders like Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, fibromyalgia, adrenal malfunction, anxiety, depression, and triggers.

Most people’s lives are unrecognisable within 6 to 18 months. They have rebooted emotionally, mentally, spiritually, financially, and physically in ways that they weren’t able to access even before the abuse, even if abuse is all they’ve ever known. They’re living abuse-free lives and thriving in their new lives, regardless of what they lost and left behind in the past.

 

Who is Quanta Freedom Healing For?

It doesn’t matter your age, gender, sexual orientation, or religious preference, whether you left 40 years ago or are still with this person. The person could be a lover, intimate partner, spouse, family member, friend, neighbour, or child – Quanta Freedom Healing is unconditional because it focuses on the trauma inside of you that is making you sick, hooked, and stuck in abuse programs.

 

Support With Quanta Freedom Healing

The healings work in a way that revolutionises how we heal. There is no more requirement to bash pillows and scream out wounds, or decipher and investigate your childhood logically for years to try to heal. Rather, with Quanta Freedom Healing, your body is signalled to “light up” the dense energy, then you simply feel it without information, follow my voice to let it go, replace it with The Light and experience life-changing shifts in minutes, as opposed to decades of work.

With the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP), as well as many additional resources, there is a Global Forum of Super Thrivers from all over the world, there for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year to lovingly support you and grant you true healing solutions.

In our wonderful NARP Community, we have seen it all – any inner and outer issue that you are struggling with. Also, unconscious abusers all do the same stuff and it’s highly predictable. We can guide you and let you know what’s coming up and how to get through it. We know how to do this quickly, powerfully and in the least painful and most empowering way no matter WHAT you are going through.

All of the incredible NARP Community Forum support comes completely free with your NARP program.

I hope you now have a much better understanding of the super-tool, Quanta Freedom Healing, which is responsible for us granting leading edge abuse and trauma recovery, worldwide. I most of all I want you to have hope that there is a way to heal for real.

 

Conclusion

At MTE we are thrilled about these results, that we live personally and share every day with people. It’s so much easier, more supportive and loving to heal this way.

It was important for me to make Quanta Freedom Healing and the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program as accessible as I could to as many people as possible. This is why I made the price of this complete life-time healing system a once only payment less than the usual price of three hours of therapy. I’ve also given you a small monthly payment option – with full access to all resources and unlimited time community support immediately.

Plus, I take all of the risk for you to try it. There’s a complete money back guarantee for you to try the life-changing Quanta Freedom Healing Modules in the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, and if you don’t receive spectacular results, with one email to support@melanietoniaevans.com you can receive a full refund of your money with no questions asked.

So, I hope that I’ve explained Quanta Freedom Healing and why trying to survive abuse and trauma has been so painful and hard. Narcissistic abuse doesn’t have to be a life sentence.

If you’d love to heal from abuse and expand into more success on every topic, I’d love to help you. Here is the link to NARP, and also you can read people’s Quanta Freedom Healing success stories here.

Let me know in the comments whether my explanation for Quanta Freedom Healing today makes sense. Also, if any of our lovely Thrivers would like to share their explanation or experience of Quanta Freedom Healing, please do!

I look forward to answering your questions and comments below.

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No Justice in a Family Courtroom; A REAL MAN TAKES CARE OF HIS KIDS!

No Justice in a Family Courtroom; A REAL MAN TAKES CARE OF HIS KIDS!

Clark County, Nevada

May 2, 2023

Veterans In Politics Foundation had an opportunity to Court Observe this case in less than an hour we were intrigued by this case that we wanted to learn more.

We pulled the entire case file and were furious about the way the Eighth Judicial District Court Family Division would allow this father to continue to rack up financial legal bills for the mother and refuse to charge the father with the frivolous filings. In addition, allowing the father to continue to violate court orders by not paying his child support.

The biggest frustration we observed with this case is the hate the father has towards the mother. The hate is so great towards the mother that it blinds the father and his revenge for the mother made his daughter a casualty of his narcissistic world.

The child always pays the price of their parent’s mistakes.

BACKGROUND:

The Court Cautioned Victor Sal Victoria “of letting the child down” The Court suggested the Father “stand by his word and … not disappoint the child.”  The Court made note of Victor’s already limited visitation, which he has not been exercising, and his lack of involvement in his child’s life. Victor has been an absentee parent for the majority of his child’s life.  Instead of spending time with his child he spends time filing frivolous motions in court and pretends to be someone he’s not.

Victor makes a six-figure income which he should be contributing to the care of his child. He has failed to pay a significant amount of money for child support, health insurance, unreimbursed medical expenses, etc.    Therefore, the child has to suffer because Victor will not contribute to his child’s needs.

For a few short months, Victor was allowed to have more visitation with his child than the few hours a week schedule.    Then the Judge quickly revoked that order due to Victor’s unsupervised behavior. This proves that he is not a fit father and has no intention of ever being the dad his child deserves.

Don’t take our word for it. Please click on the case file videos below:

  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Now it begins before Family Court Judge Potter on 10/06/10 www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISLXaNL71VM&t=4s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Continues before Family Court Judge Potter on 11/23/10 www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOUoa1I0ZV0&t=30s

3. This is how you handle a Divorce & Custody! Matter before Family Court Judge Potter Victoria 2/1/11 www.youtube.com/watch?v=s65-UWVm6OE&t=108s

  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Starts before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg on 1/16/20 www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSBzTza5s6s&t=23s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg on 3/17/20 www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7wYPdQ1M0M&t=25s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg on 5/19/20 1-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MvZw7Prv4w&t=30s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg 5/19/20 2-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SIa13_JFHA&t=4s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg 5/19/20 3-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=eW9ILX-g3F8 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg 5/19/20 4-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=WA2Pk4x2fvg 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg 5/19/20 5-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MWN85Rplis 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Let’s Go Before Family Court Judge Forsberg 5/19/20 6-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8jI7ROr-dQ&t=9s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg 5/19/20 7-7 www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ewcp_IFjG6s&t=10s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Rhonda Forsberg 9/7/21 www.youtube.com/watch?v=AiYl_HVJI1I&t=6s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Bad Audio Before Family Court Judge Forsberg 1/18/22 www.youtube.com/watch?v=jATqe1GZ69k&t=7s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Senior Court Judge Gerald Hardcastle 6/14/22 www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_oF7be0Taw&t=10s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Super Senior Court Judge Cherry 8/16/22 www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfS4fK9fHa4&t=10s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Get the Ref a Nametag 10/25/22 www.youtube.com/watch?v=brXnl4vktTw&t=7s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Get the Ref a Nametag 11/8/22 www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaI6ZBSDpb8&t=10s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/16/23 www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5YF1Bhbx-U&t=17s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 1-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4X87DRTpxI&t=6s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 2-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIXs27jsn1s&t=30s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 3-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuxrYZNbNz8&t=16s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 4-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbPGO5hjsws&t=11s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 5-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=as7yefRO69c&t=15s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 6-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1BPetRlZrs&t=12s 
  1. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 7-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=18nExl2XJVU&t=15s 

27. Victor Sal Victoria vs Victoria Matter! Before Family Court Judge Marli Parlade’ 3/24/23 8-8 www.youtube.com/watch?v=Di2faZMIMkU&t=24s

 

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HOUSE BILL 969: CIVIL PENALTIES FOR INTERFERING WITH CHILD CUSTODY – Texas Representative David Cook



Interference with Child Custody is a big problem not only in Texas, but throughout the United States. The “custodial” parent …

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6 Ways a Mother Can Lose Custody as a Result of Her Misconduct

sad mother sitting on the floor crying holding a child's shoe

 

It is a difficult decision for any parent to lose custody of their children. It can be an even more difficult decision when the mother has lost custody due to her own misconduct.

Ways a Mother Can Lose Custody

In order to understand how this could happen, it’s important that we take the time to examine 6 ways in which a mother might lose custody as a result of her own actions:

1. Child Abuse

Society tends to see women as nurturing, but they can be just as capable of abuse. Despite the commonly held belief that women are less capable of child abuse than men, it is often more shocking to learn that a mother has abused her children. Some people assume this type of behavior occurs in only one-parent families and especially among stepfathers or adoptive parents, however, mothers can also be abusive.

The reason mothers lose custody of their children is abuse: physical, emotional, and sexual. Some people assume that women are less likely to be abusers, however, they can commit all types of child abuse which makes it more shocking when a mother abuses her kids because society sees them as nurturing but sometimes this isn’t the case.

Sometimes, a mother isn’t abusive herself but fails to protect her children from abuse by the new partner. If the court becomes aware of this behavior in either case, they are likely to lose custody.

When a father knows his child is being abused by the mother but does nothing about it, he fails to protect their child and this can impact both his custodial rights as well as the mother’s. This means that parents have an obligation to take care of their children.

2. Child Neglect

If a mother neglects her child’s basic needs, like health and education, she runs the risk of losing custody. For example: if she leaves them hungry or homeless without any clothes to wear they will likely end up in foster care. Neglect is often intertwined with other issues such as abuse or substance use so one should not be ignored for another.

There is no set standard for a “perfect parent”. Family law judges understand that parenting isn’t perfect, so they are willing to overlook some small mishaps such as being late picking up the children from school or not keeping an appointment. However, if there’s long-term neglect of the child and this threatens their well-being, then you could risk losing your parental rights with family court intervening.

A father may be able to prove the negligence of his children by the mother. Teachers, daycare providers, family members, and others are all potential sources for proof against a negligent parent. If these people notice that there is something wrong with how parents care for their kids but don’t know what exactly it might be or if they would want to testify in court about it on behalf of an estranged father’s custody case, then perhaps direct evidence can help them out!

3. Substance Abuse or Addiction

The courts take addiction to alcohol and drugs very seriously, in part because it can have a negative impact on the care that an addict’s children receive. If a mother struggles with addictions to alcohol and other substances she may be put into question as being unfit or unable to take care of her children.

If a mother is discovered to have a dependency on prohibited substances or drugs and alcohol, she risks having her custody rights revoked. Children of addicts are more likely to suffer neglect, abuse, and imitate their parents by picking up bad habits as well. In cases where there’s evidence of the mother’s substance use (drug/alcohol), fathers can present this evidence requesting that his ex-wife be stripped of visitation privileges with his children altogether in order for them not to pick up these unhealthy behaviors themselves.

Despite the fact that a mother can be awarded custody if she agrees to get treatment for her addiction, this isn’t always possible.

A result of giving mothers custody over their children when they are addicted is it may endanger them physically, sexually, or emotionally and put their lives in danger (e.g., drunk driving). However, there are times where mothers might still retain custody after signing an agreement allowing them access to counseling for addictions as well as following through on getting help from these services (if necessary) .

4. Violating a Court Order

A mother’s custody rights can be lost or reduced should she violate a child custody order. When a parent disobeys their scheduled responsibilities, neglects court-ordered visitation times with the father, and interferes with his parental privileges they may face consequences such as losing legal custodial authority of her offspring.

If a shared custody agreement is ordered by the court, and she fails to comply or interferes with her co-parent’s parenting time, then she will be in violation of the court order.

Violations of court orders are like any other form of misconduct: the more serious the violation is, it should be treated with a correspondingly stronger punishment. Assume that a mother consistently misses deadlines for dropping off or picking up her child by only several minutes, this technically qualifies as violating an existing custody agreement but will rarely have drastic consequences on their custodial rights since these kinds of minor violations tend to carry minimal punishments in most cases.

A mother who decides that the court’s order providing specific parenting time is a suggestion and not a directive may violate their custody agreement. If this continues to happen, it could lead to losing custody of her child.

A father should keep a detailed log of every time his ex-wife interferes with or violates their court order. Every instance the mother keeps the child from him sabotages visitation plans, and more can be used against her in court to lessen her custody rights as punishment for causing havoc between them.

Fathers should be sure not to let the violations of a court order go without any consequences. The usual reason they do this is that they want to avoid conflict, but mothers will only see that as an opportunity for them to violate it more often and solidify in their minds that it’s just a suggestion instead of something she needs to follow.

5. Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is not just something that happens to other people. To protect your children, you should also know the signs of domestic violence that are exhibited by mothers. You do not have to put up with abuse and ensure that they stay safe from harm.

If a mother is deemed to be abusive, she can have her custody revoked. This will ensure that the children are not exposed to potentially harmful abuse and also protect them from potential future harm.

Domestic violence is emotional abuse that may turn physical with time. Children are in danger of being exposed to this if they come in contact with or spend significant time, living in the home. Courts are aware of this and will take action for your safety.

6. Severe Mental Health Issues

Mothers with mental health concerns still have the right to custody of their children, however, if a mother’s state endangers her child/children or compromises them in any way then she can lose that legal privilege.

In these cases, the court has to consider whether or not it is in their children’s best interests if they are left under a mother’s care. The father will have to show that her mental health issues compromise their safety and argue that without his presence, their well-being would be better protected. This can sometimes require extensive interviews by psychologists as well as counseling before any final decision being made so this process may take some time but should always remain fair for both parties involved.

Other ways considered by the Law for mothers to lose custody of their children:

  • Child Abduction
  • Parental Alienation
  • Lack of Involvement in the Child’s Care
  • Reporting Abuse by the Other Parent

The final and most important thing a mother can do is to seek the help of an attorney. There are many ways for mothers to lose custody of their children as a result of misconduct, but there are also attorneys that specialize in challenging such decisions. If you’re feeling like your child’s best interests may not be at risk due to this ruling, please contact one of our lawyers today. They will work hard on your behalf and make sure that your rights as a parent remain intact so that you have time to raise them with the love and care they deserve!

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5 Ways To Ease Post-Divorce Anxiety In Kids

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The stress of a divorce can manifest differently in children, just as it does in adults, and your kids will naturally experience some anxiety during this tough transition.

Age can be a factor in how they handle the stress. They may have big concerns about changing residences or schools, or how the holidays will change with two households—and anxiety around everyday stressors like test-taking can be exacerbated during this time.

The good news is there are ways that you can help relieve the pressure and help remove some of your child’s post-divorce anxiety.

Ways to Ease Post-Divorce Anxiety in Kids

Get Your Kids Moving

Encourage the same stress fighting activities in your children that you need for yourself. Make sure your kids are getting regular physical exercise, which gives them physiological benefits such as an endorphin boost and reduced anxiety.

Regularly participating in an after-school or community sports program or dance class can help kids get their minds off the divorce or other situational stressors that cause anxiety. Regular exercise doesn’t need to be expensive – you and your child can take walks or go running together, or even try out instructional YouTube videos on aerobic activities like Zumba or cardio kickboxing.

Spending that time together also is a great way to check-in with your child and offer the opportunity to talk about what’s causing them anxiety.

Test Time Can Trigger More Anxiety

The stress of a divorce can exacerbate the performance anxiety around testing that many children already have. Fear of failure can weigh on them heavily, particularly during a time when they may worry more about disappointing you.

Tests with higher stakes, such as final exams, can be even worse. Preparation is key. Talk with your kids and make sure you’re not making some of the most common mistakes on test day, such as not carefully reading directions. Prepping your kids before test day will help get them in the right mindset, as will a good night’s sleep and a decent breakfast.

Let them know your expectations are reasonable and that you’ll love them even if they fail. Knowing you’re there to support them will help ease the pressure.

Walk Through the Changes

If your divorce involves shared custody, your child may have some anxiety over living in two places. They may be getting used to a new room, a new house, or a new neighborhood in addition to the major changes in the family structure.

Whenever possible, involve your child in discussions about the new living arrangements. Let them help decorate their new bedroom, whether it’s choosing a new comforter or a paint color to help make it their own.

Ensure they have some familiar things in the new space, either permanently or in a bag that travels from place to place. Eventually, staying in both places will become a new kind of stability, especially when you help create a sense of normalcy and routine.

Keep a Lid on Conflict

Even the most civil of marital breakups has its moments where the soon-to-be-ex-spouses can’t agree. Even without arguing, the tension can be palpable. If you need to have it out with your ex, do your best to take the discussion out of view of your kids.

Never use your child as a go-between or an emissary. Parental conflict can make a child feel caught in the middle, and anxiety increases. Even parents who stay together can cause a great deal of anxiety in their kids if they display a lot of conflict, so take heart in knowing that even with the divorce, you can make things easier by keeping conflict out of view.

If conflict is unavoidable, be sure to give your children lots of emotional support following any confrontations.

Talk It Out

Sometimes kids might be afraid to talk about how the divorce is making them feel for fear of making things worse or causing you trouble. Be sure they know your door is open, and that they know their well-being is a top priority for you.

Ensure they understand that the divorce is not their fault—kids may internalize perceived actions and reactions, and feel guilty over the breakup. Let them know it’s okay to have a lot of different feelings, even positive ones, and help them articulate what they feel.

Their anxiety will lessen if they know it’s not wrong to feel or not feel a certain way, whatever that may be. They may have a lot of questions, and you should try to be prepared for ones about where they’ll live and how the divorce may impact their routine, even if the answer is “I don’t know yet.” You can assure them that you and your ex-spouse are working on all of the answers for them.

Divorce is highly disruptive to a child’s sense of stability, and assuring them you want to keep it as least disruptive as possible can help them regain some footing. Knowing that you’re a constant support in their lives can help them get through times when anxiety seems to grow.

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The Impact of High-Conflict Divorce on Children | Signs of Parental Alienation and How to Prevent It

Divorce can be an emotionally challenging experience for all parties involved, especially when it is a high-conflict divorce. Unfortunately, when parents cannot come to an agreement, it can negatively affect their children, leading to parental alienation. In this article, we will explore the connection between high-conflict divorce and parental alienation, and what parents can do to prevent it.

 

How High-Conflict Divorce Can Affect Children

 

A high-conflict divorce can have a profound impact on a child’s mental health and well-being. Children may feel like they are caught in the middle of their parents’ disagreements and may start to blame themselves for their parents’ issues. Children may also feel like they have to choose between their parents, leading to loyalty conflicts. These issues can lead to anxiety, depression, and behavioral problems in children.

 

What is Parental Alienation?

 

Parental alienation occurs when one parent deliberately tries to turn their child against the other parent. This can be done in subtle or overt ways, such as badmouthing the other parent, limiting contact with the other parent, or manipulating the child to choose one parent over the other. This behavior is often a result of a high-conflict divorce, where one parent is trying to gain an advantage over the other in a custody battle.

 

Signs of Parental Alienation

 

Parental alienation can be difficult to detect, but there are some signs that may indicate that a child is experiencing it. Here are some common signs of parental alienation:

  1. Rejection of one parent: A child who is experiencing parental alienation may reject one parent without any valid reason. They may refuse to spend time with the parent, speak negatively about them, or even refuse to acknowledge their existence.
  2. Lack of guilt: A child who is being manipulated may not feel guilty for their behavior towards the alienated parent. They may feel justified in their rejection of the parent and believe that they are acting on their own.
  3. Inflexible allegiance: The child may be unreasonably loyal to the alienating parent, even in situations where the parent is clearly in the wrong. The child may take the alienating parent’s side in conflicts and refuse to listen to the other parent’s perspective.
  4. Fear or anxiety: A child who is experiencing parental alienation may feel anxious or fearful around the alienated parent. They may believe that they are betraying the alienating parent by spending time with the other parent.
  5. Lack of empathy: The child may show a lack of empathy towards the alienated parent, even if the parent is clearly suffering. They may seem indifferent to the parent’s feelings and needs.
  6. False accusations: In some cases, the child may make false accusations against the alienated parent, such as accusing them of abuse or neglect. These accusations may be part of the alienation campaign orchestrated by the other parent.

 

It is important to note that these signs may also be present in situations where there is no parental alienation. Therefore, it is essential to carefully evaluate the situation and seek professional help before making any assumptions.

 

Preventing Parental Alienation

 

Preventing parental alienation requires a collaborative effort between both parents. Here are some tips and strategies that can help prevent parental alienation:

  • Put the child’s best interests first: Both parents should prioritize their child’s well-being and put their own issues aside. It is essential to create a safe and stable environment for the child. This means focusing on what is best for the child, even if it means compromising or making sacrifices.
  • Communicate respectfully: Effective communication is crucial in co-parenting. Parents should try to communicate in a respectful and civil manner, without blaming or criticizing each other. This can help reduce tension and conflict and create a more positive co-parenting relationship.
  • Create a co-parenting plan: A co-parenting plan can help set clear expectations and boundaries for both parents. It should include a schedule for visitation, holidays, and other events, as well as guidelines for decision-making and conflict resolution. By establishing a plan, both parents can have a clear understanding of their roles and responsibilities, which can reduce conflict and promote cooperation.
  • Avoid badmouthing the other parent: It is crucial for parents to avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of the child. This can create confusion and negative emotions for the child, leading to parental alienation. Instead, both parents should focus on encouraging a positive relationship between the child and the other parent.
  • Encourage a positive relationship with the other parent: Parents should encourage their child to have a positive relationship with the other parent. This can be done by speaking positively about the other parent, facilitating communication, and supporting their relationship. It is important for the child to feel comfortable and supported in their relationship with both parents.
  • Seek professional help: Family therapy and counseling can be a valuable tool in preventing parental alienation. A qualified therapist can help both parents work through their issues and develop effective co-parenting strategies. Therapy can also provide a safe and neutral space for parents to communicate and resolve conflicts.

 

Conclusion

 

Parental alienation can have severe consequences on a child’s mental health and well-being, and it is often a result of a high-conflict divorce. However, by putting their child’s best interests first, communicating respectfully, and working together to create a stable and positive environment, parents can prevent parental alienation and support their child’s healthy development.

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