Shifts Happen – Series 5 – Session 18 – Physical Care During Ascension

 

Last week, in Series 5, “Integrating Incoming Ascension Energies”, we worked on preparing for Light Codes, meaning emotionally and spiritually coming into alignment to let these Higher Frequencies in. Many of you reported that this was the most powerful Quantum Freedom Healing™ session you’ve ever had.

And, now, we will start working on the physical body because this is extremely important to make personal ascension possible.

You may have been suffering lately from ascension symptoms. Commonly, these are feelings of insomnia, anxiety, fatigue, mood swings, headaches, and body aches and pain. There may even be digestive issues. These are all accentuated at the moment because of the intense electromagnetic energy presently pulsing down to planet Earth.

As ascending beings, we can accept how much the body and emotional self connect. Looking after your physical apparatus at this time will assist with all levels of your mood, how your body’s feeling, your emotional frequency, and your ability to feel empowered, enlightened, and activated.

It’s a very exciting time to use this time to our advantage because there are incredible opportunities right now to up our game, in the health department, to make the most of this shift from third-density to fifth-density capacity.

 

Opening Your Heart to Heal

The power of an open heart to heal can never be underestimated. Your connection to Source/God/ Creation starts with the connection to yourself. Immediately upon connecting to yourself with loving self-support and encouragement and allowing yourself to just be with whatever arises in loving and grateful ways, powerfully opens your heart to yourself.

This means not resisting your personal experience – no matter what it is – meeting it with love instead.

If your heart isn’t open to yourself, you are not open to the bounty of Source. Cultivating dropping into your heart space with love and acceptance, radiates and permeates throughout every part of your body. This chemically alters your frequency and then your biochemical processes, to bring your God/Source/Creation inner system online.

Your body is designed to do incredible, impeccable processes. To clean up toxins, eliminate them, and create the perfect internal environment for you to thrive. The problem has been the toxic assault our human experience has created as the enemy. Toxic emotional trauma wedged in our emotional somatic self, coupled with toxic chemicals, pesticides, and parasites has overloaded our physical apparatus so that it cannot function as it was designed by God/Source/Creation to do.

When your heart is closed, you are immediately in decreased immune function. You don’t have the frequency of God/Source/Creation, which is life force and well-being flowing through you. You’re on a negative 3D timeline, where you don’t know that you and God/Source/Creation are one. Your closed heart keeps you stuck in separation consciousness because you’re separated from yourself and then by default, God, Source, Creation, and Others.

This is the perfect environment for dis-ease, rather than ease of function. If your heart isn’t open to you, you can’t stay the course of health, self-devotion and self-care.

What does an open heart look like? Allowing, surrendering, and lovingly being with yourself, unconditionally. Not berating and diminishing yourself about your health choices. You can’t shame and blame yourself into action! Speaking to yourself as you would a child who you adore.

This immediately opens you up to well-being.

Then you can organically start making the choices that a loving self would. It also brings powerfully online the re-membering of the inner power you have to be healthy and trust your intuitive guidance, which is drastically increasing now that we are on fast-track ascension timelines.

 

Accepting the Dis-ease

 This may seem totally counterintuitive. Everything you’ve been taught is about resisting or going to war with painful parts of your body that are expressing themselves as dis-ease or being overweight (any uncomfortable or displeasing aspect). This is because the contemporary view has been to medicate symptoms but not address the root of the cause. In this time of fast-track ascension, your body will start pinging wherever it’s holding any dense energy (unresolved beliefs and traumas). The signal will become accentuated.

Many people that I know, and I’ve had this experience myself, have blessed and accepted a part of the body signalling, and then transitioned into the healing of the root cause of the dis-ease.

Being unhealthy is a beautiful opportunity and gift to self-partner and care for yourself!

After blessing and thanking this message, and accepting the dis-ease as a pathway to your Higher Self, you can move toward a great breakthrough.  Releasing the pain of the disease, also known as the symptom, with Quantum Freedom Healing greatly accelerates your healing – to line you up with the solution, which is the information, people, inspiration and motivation to successfully move from dis-ease into health and ease.

Are you suffering from body aches, fatigue, brain fog, or ringing in the ears? This can be such an intense time of discomfort. It’s because of rising from 2-strand DNA to the evolved human of 12-strand DNA, taking our rightful place back as the capacity and Light force that we were always created to be. Huge changes are happening within us to accomplish this.

If you close your heart to the passage and journey (not accepting that it is all meant to be), choose toxic pastimes and people, and seek chemicals outside of yourself to put on top of existing toxicity instead of cleaning up your body to do its own phenomenal healing, this keeps you stuck in a loop of spiraling down into more and more pain.

Clearly, those of you here working ascension are not orientated towards this. If you slip and digress, you know it’s not serving you. This is a time to get serious.

Presently I’m in a detox. It’s day six today. I’m doing really well, even though I still have some symptoms. The first couple of days were pretty tough. After travelling and not eating cleanly, and being in really toxic environments I really needed this, it has been three years since the last one, plus wanting to be as clean and open for these ascension upgrades to be able to be absorbed and work efficiently in my body.

I am so excited and dedicated to being a NEW and TRUE human!

The breakthroughs I feel are already amazing. And a deeper journey of gratitude and acceptance. There are challenges in my life just as there are challenges in nearly everybody’s life right now. Being a Thriver doesn’t mean that you never have challenges. It means you turn breakdowns into breakthroughs and accelerated growth and expansion like a boss.

I know now how important it is for unity consciousness to have our heart open in acceptance, in gratitude, in surrender of all of this, no matter how it looks, or even if body parts are screaming at you right now.

 


 

The Relevance of De-toxing

I’d like you to consider that our organic well-being and health, because we are a fractal of God/Source/Creation, already exists. We naturally are health, life force and expansion. What is stopping us from being our true essence, is toxification. The toxic people and situations, plus the food we eat, the water we drink, the air we breathe, the medicines we take, and the products we put on and around us are full of toxic chemicals. Healing dis-ease is not about putting more chemicals on top of inflammatory responses and breakdowns in the body that have occurred because of chemicals.

Our health, with the emotional, mental, spiritual and physical bodies, is about detoxifying, which means Letting Go. This is why we do Quanta Freedom Healing™, to let go of internal traumas robbing us of our life and health. As a spirit in a flesh suit, there is also a necessity to eliminate toxins from your body. In many ways, the body will naturally do this, if granted the right environment and conditions, organic food, filtered water, being mindful about products, and looking at natural ways to live and thrive rather than using chemicals.

Yet, maybe your body is overloaded. You feel heavy, sluggish, bloated, irritable, anxious, and can’t sleep well. You may have chronic inflammatory dis-ease somewhere in your body.  This is because parasites, heavy metals and pollutants are not allowing your body to function healthily.

Additionally, toxic overload can disconnect you from your heart, because you feel bad, ugly, unworthy and unlovable. Toxins also block your pineal gland, shutting it down, and blocking intuition. This means you don’t have an open channel to receive guidance and stay stuck in low-frequency energy.

Detoxing can grant you a radical turnaround in your health because it drastically heals inflammation. The excess weight you’ve gained and the bloating is because of inflammation. These are autoimmune responses in your body to foreign matter – toxicity. A good detox protocol also helps to kill off the parasites that crave bad food within you, thus helping you overcome carb and sugar addictions.

Presently this has been so helpful for me!

When you detox, in a healthy, supported way, you shed weight. Your body comes back online. You start glowing. You look younger. You feel fresher and vibrant. You have more energy. It’s a very small price to pay for the period that you do this detox in, for you to come out the other side as a new self.

Detoxes can have incredible results for aspects of the body that are not healing. If you do the research on detox results, you will see that people have healed many diseases, as well as reset their bodies in ways that are literally miraculous. The reason is that the body resets back to its organic well-being.

Other healthy things you can do for your body are Epsom salt baths, resting when you need to, being out in nature, grounding by getting your feet in the dirt, and getting enough sunlight and adequate sleep.

You may also wish to have your blood work done by a functional medicine expert or a naturopath to assess what’s happening inside your bio-functions. Then you can get directions on natural adjustments that will make a huge difference in your life. Years ago, after narcissistic abuse, I sought out that advice, and the differences coupled with Quanta Freedom Healing™ Shifts were incredible. Now, because of this fast-paced ascension, I’m organising to get the same done again, after this detox.

In Conclusion

Getting serious about taking care of your physical apparatus housing the soul and spirit that is co-creating ascension for humanity and planet Earth, means stepping up to the plate. The Age of Aquarius is about authenticity and self-responsibility rather than being a victim and expecting authorities to give you answers, or somebody to come along and rescue you. It’s about awakening to the power and the truth of your INNER Source Self. This starts with taking a stand for a devotion to yourself. Staying out of your head, and intending this through your heart.

There already is, in the future, a 5th density self of yours, in the future timeline, who is ascended, filled with Light codes, telepathic, compassionate, empathetic, transparent, authentic and empowered, who is living his or her best life from the inside out.

We will incorporate “Quantum Jumping” – moving you from your present 3D timeline to embody your 5D timeline – with Quanta Freedom Healing™ today. I’ve also energetically intended this to be incorporated into the previous Quanta Freedom Healing™ Sessions in Shifts Happen. You will soon see how this works!

Before the detox, my ego was putting up a big fight about this detox – multiple excuses to put it off. I did “Quantum Jumping” of timelines with Quanta Freedom Healing to be-come this Self (when you embody it, then all things related come). Then I flowed into the detox fully dedicated.

Which is the healing session we are doing today to deliver you vibrationally to the same.

After this, I’ll grant you additional healing suggestions to help heal and support your physical self, then in the Q and A, I will share my detox protocol and experiences, and answer any questions you have on this topic!

If you are not already, by becoming a Shifts Happen Member, you receive the full additions to this session, plus 17 other power-packed transformational sessions – that eliminate decades of recovery and healing, as you ascend into your Highest and Best Self – directly – the Quantum Way.

You can see all the details here: www.youcanthriveprogram.com/join

I look forward to answering all of your questions and comments below.

Love Mel xo

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Shifts Happen – Series 3 – Session 9 – “Becoming Abundant”

 

Today, in our first of four sessions in Series Three – “Manifesting Abundance”, this journey begins with working on essential beliefs to lay a prosperous foundation. I can’t emphasise to you enough how important this is!

I hope that you understand why during this session.

If you don’t “Become Abundant”, durable prosperity is highly improbable if not impossible. The core beliefs, that I will discuss with you today, are some of the greatest reasons that people, even those who can manifest money, are not abundant. Becoming abundant means many things. Becoming abundant actually has nothing to do with money itself, yet ironically prosperity won’t come into play until you become abundant.

You may have heard that some people win the lotto, even millions, and become flat broke again. The reason is they never had abundant beliefs to begin with. Even though, somehow, they had beliefs of “good fortune”, their money beliefs were of poverty, lack, and powerlessness.

Many people can suffer from problematic internal money beliefs. Some people who work very hard for money, can’t make ends meet no matter how much they earn, or end up losing the results of their hard efforts and even land in debt.

My relationship with money, absolutely used to fall into the later category. (I’ll talk more about this soon.)

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What is Abundance Really?

Abundance is not a “thing” “situation” or “event”. It’s not an “outside-in” thing. It’s not like “When I get this money flow or financial improvement, I will become abundant.”

Abundance is a state of Beingness.

As students of ascension, you now know that no amount of “doingness” and “gettingness” can compensate for a defunct “Beingness”. Beingness is your inner programming on any topic in your life. These are your beliefs, which are how you “feel” about something, as opposed to what you are trying to “think”, that unfold your reality EXACTLY. Without exception, every single time.

We are Human Beings, not Human Thinkings. Within the highly conflicted beliefs we have suffered from 3D struggles, most people’s financial flow has suffered terribly! Even if you are living “comfortably”, you may not yet be in 5D unlimited, creative abundant expansion.

True Abundance is knowing that you are an energy spirit in a physical body, also known as “heaven on earth” with more potential, and unlimited creative expansion and manifestation power than you could imagine. When you understand how to cultivate your Beingness at the right frequency to harness this power, you will be stunned and thrilled with the results of this.

As Starseeds, people interested in re-membering “Who You Really Are” at a deeper level, many of you are rising from broken and empty to abundant and full, from within, and then seeing the startling and often instant results from the outside. You are doing an amazing job! You should be so proud of how far you have come.

And I’m excited about how far we can go!

Quantum Ignition works like this on ANY topic – you shift out whatever doesn’t feel good, then fill that internal place with Light to have space and calm on this inside. Then “ships come in over smooth waters”. That’s what our Quanta Freedom Healing™ Sessions are about – getting out of your mind and turning on your Inner Source Self Codes. It’s a dedication to this practice that allows you to live and love your “Quantum Life”.

I know this can be hard regarding “finances”. You may be terrified and traumatised about “How do I pay this next bill? Yet, God/Source/Creation is never LATE and never NOT present, when you train yourself to stop obsessing and instead shift. Then the inspiration, ideas, often some form of spontaneous healing, or support or messages from the outside that are the solution, opportunity, synchronicity and miracle appear, to activate your true Soul’s Desires.

Which of course is “enough” money to be safe and survive.

However, abundance can expand for you much further than this.

Let’s learn how!

 


 

The Connection To “Being Abundant”

Synonyms of abundance are “fullness’ and “enthusiasm”, this is the opposite of victimhood and lack.

Abundance is living in gratitude for the abundance of your life, even when there is very little to show for it. If you are stuck in the feelings of dismay, loss, endings, and the minimal life that you are living now, you are not in abundance.

If you have forgotten that you are a Divine Creator, this eclipses your life continuously from the victim frequency that you continue cultivating. The thinking about your losses, the conversations with others about the devastation, despair, and your envy of the person who took your money, or left you without what they seemed to bring into your life, is the antithesis of abundance.

Please know this, Whatever is yours by Divine Right can never be taken away from you when you are Vibrationally Divine.

If you don’t know Who You REALLY Are, A Divine Creator, a fractal of Source, literally Source Sourcing, then you don’t understand yet how vital it is to put in the work of cultivating an Abundance Frequency within yourself.

Gratitude. Excitement. Happy to be YOU having this incredible soul growth experience!

I’m not saying this shift is easy. I promise you I intimately understand what it is to have victimised financial frequencies. I previously lost obscene amounts of money in narcissistic relationships. Finances that I had worked so hard as a solo woman, to create my security. After this devastation, I felt like I was burning in hell, I had so much resentment.

In this place it got worse … and worse … and worse. I nearly died.

Thank God I woke up to the Quantum Truth and knew I had to shift from broken and destroyed. I had to let that go completely. I had to clean up the trauma of the unthinkable cruel, criminal losses I had suffered. I couldn’t do this logically, because I felt too decimated, yet with Quanta Freedom Healing™ I was able to.

I also knew the belief, “Until I recoup what I lost I will never be happy” was NEVER going to serve me. Quantum Law – so within, so without – is as absolute as gravity. If you feel “empty and poor” and need something to happen to feel abundant, then you won’t get abundance, you will get situations that keep delivering you more of “empty and poor.”

Then I knew I had to cultivate being grateful and excited about my REAL life beginning, regardless of how it looked! I did such a great job I felt the most “whole” I ever had in my entire life, despite having lost virtually everything and everyone. The reason was because I had finally come home to myself.

I had made peace and knew my value never again would depend on “what I did or didn’t have.” There was NOTHING to chase from my past because I had found my TRUE abundance – the value of me. I felt the richest I ever had.

Only a few years later, I had recouped 10-fold what I lost, doing what I love, in two revenue streams I never thought would be possible – being a global spiritual teacher of a multi-million dollar business in over 150 different countries, as well as property revamps, sales and holiday accommodation, that have also generated over a million dollars of profit.

These came about because I was abundant on the inside, and followed my intuitive desires that were bringing me joy! I loved Quantum Healing because it saved my soul and life, I was passionate about this, and I love decorating and making old spaces become new and beautiful ones.

MTE happened because I was sharing my Quantum insights and how I was healing my “the unhealable” diagnoses in ways that defied usual therapy. The first property I bought, after abuse, was a miracle. I was able to secure a bank loan without making any repayments for a year! Neither of these endeavours began as a business!

None of this would have eventuated if I didn’t make “becoming abundant on the inside” my highest priority. I promise you that your real life will begin, so fast, when you set this inner foundation for yourself too!

An abundant Beingness is this personal orientation, “There is always a solution, miracle, breakthrough and exciting possibly ahead.” This has to apply no matter WHAT your present situation is.

Of course, this takes SHIFTING if you are, understandably, struggling with this after the losses and the trauma that you have suffered in your past. Or, you are embedded in negative mindsets! Today, I hope you feel relieved to know that we are going to work on your blocks to Abundance today in our Group Healing!

And .. please know this HAS to be your Life Orientation if you want True Abundant Miracles to activate in your life.

 

Transitioning From The Mind to True Abundance

Please, please get this piece – I know so many of you are trying to THINK “How am I going to make money?” Or you are trying to visualise and keep focused on the results of your money – the fancy house, the expensive car, the nice clothes.

Possibly your thoughts of success are about getting revenge on your ex.

Maybe you have made a vision board.

Can I be honest with you – that is SO 3D!

Do you realise how many people have GOT those things, and are miserable?

That’s not abundance!

Soul gratifying creation is abundance. Otherwise, you will be existing with people or doing things that feel like a “dying” instead of connecting to making a “living” for yourself. It’s also a way to attract and be surrounded by narcissists!

TRUE Abundance is feeling spacious, clean, grateful, and lit up from the inside, and then following the cues on what it IS that LIGHTS you up on the inside.

If you are happy and positive about your life … because you are now honoring yourself, being authentic, taking care of yourself lovingly and healing beyond your shadows … and purposefully cultivating a grateful and “anything is possible” mindset then …

What interests you?

Follow that.

What calling do you feel?

Follow that.

Get this piece too – you may feel like you have a sense of WHAT interests you, but you have fears of connecting to THAT.

You believe you aren’t good enough; you don’t have what it takes, it will be too hard and it will take too long, or people may judge you!

That’s NOT abundance, and these limiting beliefs need cleaning up too!

Today we are going to work on the specific Quanta Freedom Healings™ to start lessening and dissolving the 3D beliefs that have been holding you back so that you can start to move forward into expansive and unlimited 5D abundance creation.

If you sense that you have specific and complicated blocks that you are struggling to move past, you may be interested in specialised breakthrough Quantum Coaching with me.

We now only have a few days left until my 12-month, most intimate Quantum Healing Program, called Super Thrive – Love, Health, Wealth, starts. Only one Group is running for 2024.

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Learn more about Super Thrive 

Find out how you can participate in Quanta Freedom Healing™ for Shifts Happen Series 3, plus access Series 1 and 2 (for all the same price). 

(For any further questions please ask my support team.) 

I hope that this information has helped you to understand “Being Abundant” and how to ignite your prosperity at a much deeper and more powerful level!

I look forward to sharing Session Two of this series “Manifesting Abundance”, with you next week.

As always, I look forward to your comments and questions below.

Much Love

Mel xo

 



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The Spectrum: From Echoism to Narcissistic Personality Disorder



Live from Belmont Library MA: The Spectrum: From Echoism to Narcissistic Personality Disorder
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WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

Here’s the fifth in this series of unseen video snippets, where I share some bitesize pieces of information on the subject of narcissism. The paperback version of my critically acclaimed book Rethinking Narcissism, with updated material and resources was just released on July 5th, so if this subject interests you, you can buy the book here!
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“The first and major rethink I had to do, which is really the first 3 quarters of Rethinking Narcissism..is about how we understand what’s bad about narcissism. Most of us when we think about the word narcissism or narcissist, what we picture are vain, preening, primping, boastful braggarts, reality TV types, Donald Trump gets thrown around a lot. That is what comes to mind. The problem with that image, which is really a stereotype about bad narcissism, is that a lot of narcissists could care less about looks or fame or money and some can be extremely quiet. If that’s what you are looking for, that particular image, you’re going to miss all kinds of signs of trouble in a relationship that have absolutely nothing to do with those things…”

“I’m a recovered echoist. Most people who have been raised by extremely narcissistic parents are vulnerable to this. I learned to echo my mother’s narcissism. The other thing I wanted to do was empower people who struggle in this way. There were no words for this.

Just a quick story: there was a study done one of the researchers who takes apart healthy and unhealthy narcissism put this grid together where in one grid somebody was high in healthy narcissism with rose­ colored glasses, low in extreme narcissism, in another grid they were high and both. Then there was this one group where people were low in extreme narcissism and low in healthy narcissism and it was empty. That’s not a thing somehow. We wanted to fill it, and that’s how I developed the narcissism spectrum scale which unlike most spectrums that move from degrees of awfulness up, it starts at zero with a lack of healthy narcissism and in the center we have healthy and then at the far end is where you find people who are addicted to feeling special in various ways: people with narcissistic personality disorder. ”

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Shifts Happen – Series 5 – Session 17 – Preparing for Light Codes

 

There is a powerful phenomenon that is happening right now on planet earth. The next six weeks, for you, for all of us, are pivotal times. It’s eclipse season, meaning where we have the greatest opportunities for profound personal transformation.

This month, you could be delivered into your New Self, the Self that flows, aligns and manifests miracles in flow with Source (much more of an anchoring in of 5D), if you prepare for this, and know how to work with these energies instead of being in resistance to them.

Multiple cosmic alignments are amplifying ascension incoming energies right NOW. This is why it is timely, to discuss “Integrating Incoming Ascension Energies.”

Many of you in this community have been orientating towards 5D density upshifts. March is pivotal. So much so that I don’t believe we will be the same people after this month as we were going into it.

 

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Ascension Energy and Opportunities NOW!

Let’s check back in about “ascension” and what this is really about. It is the awakening to “I am a Grand Creator.” Above all else, this means Being your Authentic Self. Realizing that you are not the small, battling, powerless self at the whim of your outer world that your programming has led you to believe.

Rather, you are made in the image and likeness of Source/God/Creation, of All That Is, and through living from your inner power center, operating in Higher Light frequency, you are capable of instant reversals and miracles for yourself, as well as being able to contribute powerfully to “The All”.

March is a huge month – massive energetically. You may already have noticed this year that manifestation has sped up. Your feelings, thoughts and intentions are rapidly manifesting, and in and after March this will be even more pronounced.

So many people are reporting this!

Therefore, mastery and spiritual frequency responsibility are important, to ride these waves of ascension consciously and for our benefit. To help you do that let’s talk about this session “Preparing for Light Codes.”

But before doing so, let’s look at what is presently going on cosmically …

The overlying reality is Light Codes streaming down to us. These are solar flares that are increasing in frequency and intensity. They are X flares – big ones, the largest measurable.

Many Shumann resonance experts, as well as spiritual channels, concur that this is all to do with the ascension shift occurring on Earth and in our universe. This is the shift from polarity – Separation Consciousness. The fear, pain, trauma, victimisation, dis-ease, poverty and war; feeling like we are powerless to affect change and have to accept this dysfunctional, dystopian programming, to breaking free and taking our True Self and 5D manifestation capacity back.

These are exciting times! Does this mean it’s all smooth sailing? No! For new orders to anchor in, the old orders need to come up to be released and dissolved. If we don’t know what is happening, and fight this process, it can feel like ongoing breakdowns with no relief.

This is why I felt so inspired to work with you, in Series 5, to help you midwife this BIG ascension changeover time!

Right now, we have a hot spot of accelerated ascension energies, happening over and above the solar flare activity. There is a Super New Moon today in Pisces. This is a massive healing opportunity – in this eclipse season, leading to the total eclipse coming in April.

Also, Chiron is on the North node, meaning that the healing up-shift taking place is “destiny”. Chiron says, ‘Look at this wound, it’s the springboard to your evolution, and if you don’t, you are going to miss this opportunity”. This is intense, Pisces is about the emotions of the deep unconscious, coming up now for review and release. This is the old self being purged, a time of profound transformation and change.

 


 

Also, there is a strong possibility that the Sun is about to have a magnetic polar field reversal – moving from solar maximum to solar minimum. The sun has a polar shift every 11 years. It’s due and many believe that in this eclipse season, which started this weekend, this could happen again any day now. Huge solar eruptions occur electromagnetically when the Sun reverses polarity.

Can you feel tension building? Does it feel to you like something is about to happen?

As a Human Being, you are made of energy, you are electromagnetic. Light frequencies are pouring in, bursting, flaring and increasing. Your literal DNA is being shaken up. Whatever is out of integrity, in the shadows is being busted up, forced up and challenged to be released.

Eclipse seasons signify the ending of eras and the beginning of new. You change, your life changes through them, and this is coupled with the New Moon, the solar fares, and Solar maximums leading to a polar shift …

Something really BIG is changing for all of us.

So let’s dive into how you can prepare.

 

Shifting Into Authenticity

The Age of Aquarius we are now firmly in is about authenticity. It’s about “the truth” seeing it, being it and dropping pretenses, games and falsities. Lies and self-serving manipulations are being exposed. In the Age of Aquarius, Unity Consciousness is the only true energy that can exist, therefore whatever is NOT of the Light is struggling to stand. Separation Consciousness was “power over” – ego, narcissism, and victimisation.  Now we are coming into co-creative Unity Consciousness – meaning Source and I, and life and Others are One.

What is intended must be for the truth and wellbeing of the Collective and not the “I”, but truth starts from soul truth. Your birthing into this era, is asking you “If something or someone is not the truth of you anymore, let it go”, so that you are free to create your authentic self, life, and Earth.

The next six weeks (eclipse season) will offer opportunities for incredible personal transformations. Eclipses mean completing cycles, ending them and new beginnings from a powerful, fresh perspective, if you consciously examine and release what is not serving you and allow in the new energies.

Right now, whatever you choose and intend will be amplified. Things ARE manifesting instantly – for good or bad. They will unravel very quickly and powerfully. It is such a convergence of BIG transformational energies that tissues will come up and even explode. Be prepared.

 

How To Prepare For This Grand UP-Shift Opportunity

Right now, your preparation is to BE yourself.

Honour you, stop handing power away to “the outside”. You are called now to act from our power centre, your inner Source knowing.

The Aquarian age calls you to BE an individual, self-responsible. Having faith in yourself, and backing yourself, no longer needing permission from anyone to be yourself. STOP trying to gain approval.

People may burst into anger with outbreaks of emotional expression and projections. You may feel like erupting yourself. Detach from others lashing out – remove yourself from the drama. Wait and process your own emotions before acting on them.

You have a choice right now – love, dignity and consciousness – 5th density awareness and rising, or cementing yourself down into 3rd density difficulties and trauma. The gap is getting larger for people to move from 3rd density traumatic victimised reality to 5th density, which is allowing Light Codes to enter and transform them.

This is death – rebirth. The old egoic self is burning off and dying – and the kinder we are to our vibrational reality the easier this will be to allow the Source Self to step in.

What is happening to us? A literal awakening of God/Source DNA. An ease of being a part of the Whole, in peace, love, intention, deservedness and detaching from the lower vibrational dramas. Knowing we have choices, the ability to turn our lives around extremely quickly by acting on guidance to Higher health, living and abundance, if we just stop trying to control,  let go, listen and follow.

The message is “Lighten The Load”, whatever you grant attention to will burst into MORE life into your life right now. This means finalising things that are draining your energy – get them sorted, delegate them off, or let them go completely. Clean up your living space so that you don’t have mental clutter. Do a tip run, donate old items – create space for the new energies to enter.

If people and situations are causing your drama, don’t participate. Set BOUNDARIES – what you will and won’t accept – without justifying, explaining or prescribing. It just “is” and Only YOU need to get these limits, no-one else does. Your actions and removing access to you speak louder than words.

You have already been going through great divisions with others over the last few years, and this is super accentuated now in 2024. Now is the time, if people and situations are out of alignment with your value for yourself, to no longer explain, justify or try to get people to get where you are coming from. The divide is here. They probably aren’t your people. If they “got” you, they would join in with you. The fact they aren’t, simply means they are not your people.

It’s time for you to be REAL about Who You Are, being the true vibration that allows these Light Codes to Enter.

 

The Promise of Your Light-Code Preparation

You are preparing to experience the magic of the Creator that you are. Things will start lining up and manifesting effortlessly with breakthroughs that will stun you. You will lose the attachments, fear and shackles regarding what other people are doing or what they think of you. Guilt towards those you have felt martyred to will melt away.

And there is so much more that our work and Quanta Freedom Healing™ shifts will deliver you to, over the four weeks of this Series.

Now, we can get started on our healing shifts for this session, to help you anchor into the preparation to receive these Light Codes.

 

Conclusion

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The Link Between Narcissism And Drug Addiction



Live from Belmont Library MA – The Link Between Narcissism And Drug Addiction
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/qz7tyuf or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

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Shifts Happen – Series 4 – Session 16 – Generating Evolved Relationships

 

With our last session of the 4th Series of Shifts Happen, “Connecting with Others”, we move into attracting, choosing and maintaining evolved relationships.

The good news is, now on Plant Earth, in this time of accelerated ascension, this is more possible than ever – even though it may not seem this way!

Many of you have been going through catastrophic relationship breakdowns! Of loved ones, family, friends, work colleagues – maybe everywhere you look. Yet, please know this has been totally necessary for the new order to be ushered in, clearing the old and obsolete order out of the way.

This is not because there is something wrong with you or that you are operating in some sort of “superiority” and expect people to be “perfect”. Rather, it is because you cannot live inauthentically anymore. You are not prepared to be stuck in the 3D matrix, going along to get along, participating in victimised, unconscious, or even nasty behaviour.

Maybe you can no longer tolerate people who don’t care for people’s souls. Those who put stuff, labels, conformity and achievements in front of feelings, kindness, intuition, inspiration and soul truths. Dear Starseed your gentle, kind soul is calling you to get into self-honour and respect, and lead the way for others.

Can you relate to this?

Do you sense and know deeply now that there is a better way for humanity to live?

 

 

What are Evolved Relationships?

Evolved relationships don’t mean communing with people who have “guru status”, which is generally totally inauthentic anyway. We are all perfectly imperfect beings growing and healing. We are all in this together!

Evolved relationships are “messy” because they involve people who don’t brush stuff under the carpet and who face feelings and issues – their own and others. Conscious people seek to heal, grow and unify. This takes courage – to be responsibly honest in a relationship and to hold space with someone who will be honest with you.

These are relationships without masks. They require transparency and vulnerability. I hope dearly that our earlier sessions the last few weeks, have helped you greatly to become real.

Evolved relationships are truthful from a place of compassion rather than judgment. This takes self-shadow work, empathy, and the allowing and embracing of one’s flaws. It takes spiritual and emotional maturity to share honesty, to heal up, rather than tear down.

 

It’s Time To Usher In Evolved Relationships

As a Starseed, you have always been singled out. Why didn’t your life just work? Why didn’t you toe the line, get married, have a couple of kids, get a normal job and fit into life? Why were you so dramatic and disruptive?

You were likely born into a family where you are the black sheep.  You are the weird, unacceptable and difficult one!

As a Starseed, I know many of you feel pretty beaten up. Not only have you had the experience of someone abusing your soul for their own narcissistic supply, but it is likely that you came from an unconscious family. Unsupportive, and not empathetic.

Possibly you were treated you like an object that needed to comply, succeed or produce. Or you feel horribly discarded, violated, abandoned or neglected. The common denominator for almost all of us who have been damaged narcissistically is that there was damage in our childhoods.

The bottom line is that we didn’t feel loved or appreciated as ourselves. Maybe your caretakers never could care about your feelings, they didn’t have the resources, which meant they didn’t honour your soul. This may have always been the case and may still continue.

You are different. You are a spiritual revolutionist. Someone who looks at life from a much wider, deeper lens. You had to due to feeling misunderstood and unloved and because you, as a soul energy, purposefully set it up this way. This was never going to be a life of cruising and acceptance into 3D reality for you. You set up a life of reawakening to generate spiritual growth and ascension for yourself and others. You were BORN for this time – 5D ascension.

Yes! It feels lonely! But be truthful with yourself; would you ever have been at peace being so-called “normal”? You know it’s not what your soul wanted! You know these relationships and life are not for you!

If you are orientated toward a conscious 5D reality for yourself, and are ridiculed by people meant to be  “your people”, you can’t have evolved relationships with them – it’s impossible.

Simple examples are topics like food, health and career choices. 3D and 5D beliefs are markedly different. 3D conforms to the programmed status quo ranging from authorities, religion, societal and familial expectations and beliefs.

5D is one’s own intuition, soul-calling, Source “law” and Unity Consciousness truths, and trusting what feels right and what doesn’t.

3D continues the imprisonment of selling your soul to be what everyone else believes you should be.

5D grants the freedom to live the life your soul was created to live.

It’s now becoming very clear that it’s time to let go and no longer endure being stifled, judged, hidden, shamed, blamed and made to feel defective. You are the custodians of New Earth, no longer willing to live in pretences, deceit and games. You crave authenticity and true connection, which means I “see you and appreciate you”, knowing this must be a two-way street.

Because that IS a relationship.

You know those you are supposed to respect, need to earn respect. Regardless of their “stature” “age” or “position”. If they don’t value you, why should you continue respecting them? Rather, you need to say “You no longer have access to me.” Otherwise, you are just continuing to live out the toxic relationship patterns that have been 3D Earth.

You seek Unity and now see Separation so clearly. The 3D orientation “I am in the dark, chasing “stuff”, whilst cut off from Source, self and others” is becoming more obvious.  This way of living brings dead ends. Disappointments. Things are not working out.

3D people are experiencing the ineffectiveness of inauthentic decisions and actions now. If not awakening to Unity Consciousness, people in these breakdowns are projecting onto and blaming others. Those they can capture and manipulate, guilt, mine and justify so that they retain control.

However, the days of narcissistic abuse are numbered, as are the days of victim consciousness. For everyone, this means to sink or swim. Do you depart from the burning ship and swim to shore, or do you go down with it? Misery loves company, and people are not necessarily malicious. They may be unconsciously doing this, trying to survive – yet the results are the same – painful for all involved.

The question is, are you going to keep letting your 5D ascension be compromised? And at what cost?

In this grand splitting of timelines on Planet Earth – of 3D and 5D – you may have landed here, “You don’t need to agree with what I do or be in my life, but you need to care about and have kindness for my soul, and if not, I’m moving on.”

Yes, this is HUGE! And HARD! Yet, if you don’t, is there a part of you tethered and still in pain? Do you feel like someone owns this part of you, keeping you small, ashamed, feeling defective and not able to claim the True Source/Self that you were born to be at this time on planet Earth?

This is what I believe – right now – that these incidences are becoming more pronounced for so many people. Maybe there is a part of you seeking permission and recognition or other people’s blessings to unleash your True Self.

But can they?

 


 

What do evolved relationships require from BOTH parties?

1) Taking personal responsibility means acknowledging other people’s feelings and being able to self-reflect and apologise appropriately with empathy. (All humans mess up! Even evolving ones!)

2) Releasing victimisation. Stop blaming yourself, life and others (even Source) for the state of your life. Embrace the knowing this was all perfectly set in place as soul evolution opportunities to turn inwards, free ourselves from painful patterns and maladies and claim our True Source Self.

3) Humility. “The meek shall inherit the Earth.” Awakening to know your personality is NOT superior consciousness, and by getting out of your own way, you can receive and allow the Light Codes of Source/ All That Is in. To embrace the highest level of truth, Oneness, peace and wisdom that humankind is capable of (God Godding). Innerstanding that this is NOT of the mind; it’s of the soul.

Of course, kind people who are not spiritually ascending, but allow you to have your choices without continually questioning, judging or ridiculing them are fine to have in your life.

If you are judged and persecuted, speak up. Be honest; let people know what is or isn’t acceptable to your soul anymore. The most powerful thing you can do is make “I” statements about how this makes you feel.

Do they honour your feelings? Or do they double down with more projections? If they disrespect your feelings, then they have completely forsaken you because your soul IS your feelings.

There it is – you have your answer. DON’T forsake yourself by continuing to put your pearls in front of the swine. Many of your existing relationships may not come with you.

You may think – where do evolving relationships exist? I promise you they do, and it’s vital that you can shift your belief systems to be able to hold space for them to appear in your life.

Remember – powerful Creator that you are – what you believe and hold as a “truth” will be your manifested reality to the letter in the hologram of your Quantum Law Creation – so within, so without.

You don’t have time to play “potluck” anymore in lower-frequency realities. It’s on all of us, as adults, to decide and generate the relationships we wish to have in our lives. You don’t need many people as A-grade relationships – it’s quality over quantity.

Are you going to create with wind under your wings with like-minded evolved souls, or are you going to be continually shot out of the sky? Are you going to stay stuck in the persecuted, stifled, drowning fear and pain of the 3D karmic wheel, or are you going to get up and out of traumatic patterns into New Earth and be a shining example to others to do the same?

More and more people are now entering this frequency. Your shift into Higher frequencies, choices and soul-creations for New Earth is for all of humanity, helping hold and inspire this space for others – as well as unleashing your own greatest contributions, joy, love and rewards.

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Can you believe it? We are already done with Series 4 of Shifts Happen – Connecting with others.

It has been a powerful journey of self-discovery and growth, and I am so proud of each and every one of you for showing up and doing the work.

Join our Shifts Happen Community Live Sessions NOW and download all the recordings in Series 4. You will also gain access to 12 more sessions from Series 1, 2 and 3.

This series will guide you in deepening your connection with yourself and with others through vulnerability, communication, and understanding.

But, as always, there is more to come.

And I am beyond excited to announce the upcoming Shifts Happen – Series 5 – Integrating Incoming Ascension Energies. 

In Shifts Happen – Series 5 – Integrating Incoming Ascension Energy, you will take everything we have learned in Series 4 and bring it to the next level.

So, it’s time to step into your true divinity and embody the incoming ascension energies that are permeating our world.

So what are you waiting for?

It’s time to embrace the light and step into the life you were born to live!

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How do I prevent narcissism in kids?



Live from Belmont Library MA – What Is Authoritative Parenting?
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/qz7tyuf or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

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Shifts Happen – Series 4 – Session 15 – Leading with Authenticity

 

Leading with authenticity is not just about being honest – it is about leading from your soul – your True Source Self. It’s easy to be authentic when you feel supported or surrounded by people who get you – but what about when you are faced with the opposite?

It may surprise you to know you already ARE authentic. This is your natural state, yet terrible fears and false programs have caused you to be maladapted to toxic environments to survive.

Now, Dear Starseed, in this fast-track ascension that we are all in, you can FINALLY take back your power and free yourself. Being authentic will allow you to leave behind the “ordinary” and move forward into the “extraordinary”. Yet this takes immense courage.

It can feel very sad and painful to have to take this step. But to be FREE and to be YOU, you may not have any other choice!

Today’s discussion is about how authenticity has NOT been the norm on Planet Earth. It takes a monumental leap of faith to be authentic because your personal and painful losses are inevitable, endings will occur unless all your social, career and family circles are Starseeds!

The fear of being displaced is the number one reason why Starseeds struggle to be authentic and don’t live their authentic lives or feel so damaged by being disowning and displacement that they don’t activate their soul truths.

Yet, if you do, the true reward is not just a life well lived, but the generating of the only life that will truly fulfill you.

 

 

Facing Truths Regarding Others to Be Free To Be Yourself

Our previous episodes, specifically Series 1 – Session 3, “Free to Be Me”, have helped set this up for you, as well as the first two sessions of Series 4 – “Ascertaining Relationships” and “Risking Vulnerability”.

By working through these sessions, you have been able to start identifying who in your life is safe and healthy enough for you to be vulnerable (real) with. Now we are moving into the next step – leading with authenticity – meaning demonstrating your soul values in action.

Being authentic means being true to yourself and what you do in the world and staying true to who and what you serve. This is the “real you” in thought, word and deed. Your authenticity is what not only frees you to be finally and fully yourself – it’s also the key to creating your soul’s greatest success and closest relationships.

To be authentic means accepting yourself in your own skin – how can you BE this when around others who don’t accept you?

Today’s lesson requires a deep dive into the capacity of individuals in your life because who you ARE Being, has a lot to do with who you connect with. Are these people capable of humanity, able to hold space and commune with your authenticity, or are they stuck in self-absorption and in opposition to your authenticity?

Where does your true soul expression count, or is it wasted and even damaged?

What level of authenticity are you regularly able to vibrate in – high or low?

How and where can you inspire authenticity, and when do you need to remove it and carry on in other directions?

I hope that these questions and many more will get answered today!

 

What Authenticity Is Not

With narcissists, we subject our souls to inauthenticity. We went against our inner truth, choosing the desires of our fearful personality over our All-Knowing Soul, and we fell.

The greatest sell-out of authenticity is to ‘go along to get along”. You know when we do this because you suffer feelings of self-sabotage and even a deep soul-sickness.

If you are out of authenticity, you feel lost, confused, depressed, anxious and confused. Your soul lets you know that you are choosing lesser frequencies than who your soul, your Source Self, really is, such as when trying to make your soul career a format of “what the world wants” rather than following your authentic new earth soul calling.

Or when dumbing yourself down to fit into a lesser version of yourself that other people hold, so as not to upset them.

Lack of authenticity also happens each time you give in to a needy desire, such as “not wanting to be alone” and therefore keep connected to partners, friends and even family who are assaulting your soul values.

Or perhaps you feel obligated and guilty. The connection is expected of you. You are supposed to martyr your feelings and values because this is “the right thing to do”. In a world indoctrinated with “ideas” and “programming” rather than Soul Truths, of course, you were trained to ignore losses of self-esteem, self-belief, health and life force.

 


 

Humankind 5D Authenticity versus Mankind 3D Inauthenticity

Humankind is now moving into 5D energy truths – the Quantum Truth of Unity Consciousness. This means kindness, empathy, and seeking to understand and validate other humans, not for advantage, but to genuinely connect. Generating trust and emotional connections and partnerships with self, Source and others for healing, resurrection, expansion and Thriving for The All. Many individuals are now awakening, seeking deeper truths and sensing higher truths of Oneness.

Mankind, on the other hand, is a model of “every man for himself”. These are individuals having a personality experience only. Men or women in this situation can’t validate another’s emotional experience, they don’t wish to understand it or give up the position of their egoic, self-focused views and ways to come together in unity with others.

These people are not necessarily narcissistic, yet may not be motivated to change until life in Separation Consciousness can no longer continue. The threat to these beliefs can’t just be “a moment in time when things aren’t working”; it would require a breakdown of every identity attachment that they thought “their personality” was – title, lifestyle, looks, money or other egoic props – to finally discover they are a spirit having a physical experience connected to the entire Field. Meaning that if not in service to The All, they are not in service to themselves.

You can’t have A-grade relationships with these people. They can’t lean in, understand, support, partner, or back your authenticity. It’s impossible because they are not in an authentic relationship with themselves. They don’t know who they really are.

Mankind who doesn’t wish to or doesn’t have the consciousness capacity for Unity Consciousness will disconnect from you, “I really have no idea what you are interested in or what you do, and I don’t want to know.” They are happy to talk about them, their life, or others who are not in your life as an extension of themselves. They change the subject or shut you down when you start to share yourself and your life with them. Mankind in Separation Consciousness doesn’t hold space for another’s soul authenticity. They wait until your lips stop moving to bring the conversation back to them. They cannot be humble and accept their flaws and what they may have done to other people’s souls that may have hurt them. Any hurt is only about themselves.

Maybe less unconscious, yet still ascension-disinterested people, are suitable for safe, ordinary relationships, but these won’t be extraordinary connections – because you will never feel seen, met, appreciated or “real” with them. You can’t grow or expand your consciousness or co-create ascension with them.

Those who ignore, discredit or ridicule you may hurt your soul so profoundly that you could lose all faith in the Light and yourself.

This is why you have to let them go and no longer allow them to access you, because this would be a terrible soul tragedy.

 

The Courage Required in Leading with Authenticity

I posted a meme recently regarding how people hate hearing lies but, even more so, don’t like being told the truth.

When you are working on your own ascension, it becomes difficult to have unconscious energy in your life. We can make allowances for others who don’t choose to become conscious, however chronic victimhood, lack of empathy, self-absorption, manipulation, lies, lack of accountability and nasty projections are like nails down a chalkboard. If you enable these behaviours, you feel the slump in your energy field because you are out of integrity. You just absorbed lower vibrational energy. You may feel like you need to go home and smudge yourself to clear this! Maybe you can’t even get away to do this!

This stuff isn’t you, and you don’t want to be around it; your soul is screaming this to you. Authenticity is absolutely about being honest with yourself. Once you commit to this, you can’t hang out with self-harming or narcissistic people anymore without suffering soul damage.

So, where does that leave you? What can you do?

Lead with authenticity.

Telling the truth about how you feel. Pointing out blind spots lovingly to encourage self-reflection. And, of course, having boundaries if you become the target of projections. Boundaries require being honest about your experience and what is or isn’t acceptable to you. It’s an invitation for others to rise into Unity Consciousness – caring about your experience, your feelings (soul) and their personal growth into humility, acceptance and compassion in a combined relationship with you. That’s the most powerful brand of evolution for yourself and others, just as you are open and teachable about your blind spots because you wish to ascend.

You have done your part. You led authentically.

If the lower consciousness continues, you can leave because this relationship is not acceptable to your soul. As hard as this is to your personality, your soul says, “Lower vibrational realities that are not growing and healing are NOT your reality. Move on. Free yourself. Go LIVE your life from your SOUL. Start doing it NOW.”

There is only NOW to live!

If not now, when?

The only power you have is now.

If not leading from soul integrity for ourselves, we enable living out of integrity in the collective. We are contributing to the masks, emotional imprisonment, co-dependencies and narcissistic deceptions and manipulations that have caused the disaster, chaos, and dis-ease of Separation Consciousness.

As a Quantum Being, you are beginning to understand that you are not just connected to The All – you are The All.

This may feel like a heavy responsibility, yet you were born for this time. If not you, who? The organic, natural way for you to live is in Soul Authenticity because, without it, you are doomed to keep reliving inauthentic patterns, re-creating inauthentic results, with other inauthentic people chasing “something” so their real life and self can start one day.

Today – can be the start of authenticity for yourself to draw, recognize, and create relationships with other people who will also be real. To do so requires letting go of fear, being open-hearted, and being authentic – listening to your Soul – especially when this is hard to do because this is when it counts the most.

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What’s Secure vs Insecure Attachment? (Narcissism)



Live from Belmont Library MA – What’s Secure And Insecure Attachment? (Narcissism)
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/j4t7hmh or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

source

When Do Extreme Narcissists Seek Therapy? (Examples)



Live from Belmont Library MA – When Do Extreme Narcissists Seek Therapy?
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/j4t7hmh or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

source