The Spectrum: From Echoism to Narcissistic Personality Disorder



Live from Belmont Library MA: The Spectrum: From Echoism to Narcissistic Personality Disorder
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WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

Here’s the fifth in this series of unseen video snippets, where I share some bitesize pieces of information on the subject of narcissism. The paperback version of my critically acclaimed book Rethinking Narcissism, with updated material and resources was just released on July 5th, so if this subject interests you, you can buy the book here!
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“The first and major rethink I had to do, which is really the first 3 quarters of Rethinking Narcissism..is about how we understand what’s bad about narcissism. Most of us when we think about the word narcissism or narcissist, what we picture are vain, preening, primping, boastful braggarts, reality TV types, Donald Trump gets thrown around a lot. That is what comes to mind. The problem with that image, which is really a stereotype about bad narcissism, is that a lot of narcissists could care less about looks or fame or money and some can be extremely quiet. If that’s what you are looking for, that particular image, you’re going to miss all kinds of signs of trouble in a relationship that have absolutely nothing to do with those things…”

“I’m a recovered echoist. Most people who have been raised by extremely narcissistic parents are vulnerable to this. I learned to echo my mother’s narcissism. The other thing I wanted to do was empower people who struggle in this way. There were no words for this.

Just a quick story: there was a study done one of the researchers who takes apart healthy and unhealthy narcissism put this grid together where in one grid somebody was high in healthy narcissism with rose­ colored glasses, low in extreme narcissism, in another grid they were high and both. Then there was this one group where people were low in extreme narcissism and low in healthy narcissism and it was empty. That’s not a thing somehow. We wanted to fill it, and that’s how I developed the narcissism spectrum scale which unlike most spectrums that move from degrees of awfulness up, it starts at zero with a lack of healthy narcissism and in the center we have healthy and then at the far end is where you find people who are addicted to feeling special in various ways: people with narcissistic personality disorder. ”

To learn more about echoism, narcissistic personality disorder, and the narcissistic spectrum, read my internationally acclaimed book, Rethinking Narcissism. tinyurl.com/j4t7hmh

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The Link Between Narcissism And Drug Addiction



Live from Belmont Library MA – The Link Between Narcissism And Drug Addiction
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/qz7tyuf or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

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How do I prevent narcissism in kids?



Live from Belmont Library MA – What Is Authoritative Parenting?
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/qz7tyuf or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

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What’s Secure vs Insecure Attachment? (Narcissism)



Live from Belmont Library MA – What’s Secure And Insecure Attachment? (Narcissism)
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/j4t7hmh or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

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When Do Extreme Narcissists Seek Therapy? (Examples)



Live from Belmont Library MA – When Do Extreme Narcissists Seek Therapy?
www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-book

WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

BUY THE BOOK

If you like what you’ve heard learn more from the book, the link to purchase in the USA is tinyurl.com/j4t7hmh or the UK is amzn.to/1M5BLct

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Understanding Narcissism and Sociopaths

Understanding Narcissism and Sociopaths

Introduction

In today’s rapidly evolving world, psychological terms like “narcissist” and “sociopath” have become a part of our everyday vocabulary. Their depiction in popular media has led to a certain level of confusion, with these terms being used interchangeably and even inaccurately. This article aims to shed light on the true meanings of narcissism and sociopathy, their similarities, differences, and the signs to look out for in real-life situations.

Exploring the Overlapping Territory

When we delve into the realm of personality disorders, we encounter two distinct disorders: narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder, which is associated with sociopathy. While both disorders fall within the “Cluster B” group in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), they are not interchangeable. It is essential to understand their unique features to effectively identify these disorders in our lives.

Recognising Traits and Identifying Warning Signs

  1. It’s a Matter of Degree Individuals can exhibit certain traits of these disorders without meeting the full diagnostic criteria. For example, a person may display self-centred or callous qualities without being severely entrenched in those traits. Recognising these traits helps act as an early warning sign and allows for timely intervention.

    Real-life Example: Lisa has been dating John for a few months. She notices that John often exhibits self-centred behaviour and lacks empathy towards others. While he doesn’t meet the full criteria for narcissistic personality disorder, Lisa recognises the importance of addressing these traits in their relationship.

     

  2. Impression Management: The Art of Deception Narcissists and sociopaths are adept at presenting an appealing facade to the world, making it challenging to discern their true nature. Their ability to manipulate, charm, and make others feel special is unparalleled.

    Real-life Example: Mark, a charismatic and successful businessman, is known for his charming personality. He effortlessly gains the trust of others and often uses his charm to manipulate them for his own benefit. Only those who closely observe his behaviour can recognise the underlying narcissistic tendencies.

     

  3. Spotting the Right People to Manipulate Individuals with narcissism and sociopathy possess an uncanny ability to identify vulnerable, trusting individuals who see the best in others. This skillful manipulation can go unnoticed until significant harm has been inflicted. It is important not to disregard our instincts and critically evaluate the motives and actions of those around us.

    Real-life Example: Emma, a compassionate and empathetic person, often finds herself attracting manipulative individuals. One such person, David, skillfully targets Emma’s kindness and uses it to exploit her emotionally and financially. Recognizing the signs of manipulation helps Emma break free from David’s control.

     

  4. Looks Can Be Deceptive Contrary to popular belief, narcissists and sociopaths do not possess an obvious physical appearance that distinguishes them from others. They can easily blend into society, concealing their true intentions and maintaining a polished facade.

    Real-life Example: Kate, a successful businesswoman, is known for her sharp wit and impeccable style. She appears confident and well put together, but beneath her glamorous exterior lies a narcissistic personality, manipulating and exploiting those around her.

     

  5. Breaking the Stereotype While men may be more commonly associated with narcissism and sociopathy, it is crucial to recognize that women can also exhibit these characteristics. People who appear kind and pleasant on the surface may possess a complex nature and hidden motives.

    Real-life Example: Sarah, an elderly woman in the neighbourhood, is highly respected and admired by everyone. However, few realise that her seemingly kind personality conceals her manipulative and emotionally abusive behaviour towards her caretakers.

     

  6. Hidden Crimes and Misdeeds Not all acts committed by individuals with narcissistic or sociopathic traits are overtly criminal. Their wealth, status, and privilege often shield them from conventional forms of conviction, despite engaging in reprehensible behaviour.

    Real-life Example: Robert, a successful businessman, consistently mistreats his employees, creating a toxic work environment. His subtle acts of harassment and abuse go unnoticed by the law due to his influence and power.

     

The Complexity of Identifying Narcissism and Sociopathy

Understanding the intricacies of narcissism and sociopathy is no easy task. These disorders manifest on a spectrum, and individuals can exhibit varying degrees of the associated traits. It is essential to approach these situations with empathy and sensitivity, as many people find themselves entangled with individuals possessing these personality disorders.

 

With a discerning eye and a commitment to self-care, we can navigate these murky waters more effectively. By educating ourselves about the signs, we can protect our emotional well-being, maintain healthier relationships, and support those who may find themselves entangled with such personalities.

 

Remember, being informed is the first step towards making more informed choices.

 

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Episode 1 – Introduction to Dr. Craig Malkin



Welcome to Episode 1 of this special “Rethinking Narcissism” Podcast.
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WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

I really think this will help you make the most of what I’m going to be revealing over the course of the podcast and I hope you’re as excited to tune in as I am to share!

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Episode 2 – Part 1: What Is Narcissism? (The New Science)



Welcome to Episode 2 of this special “Rethinking Narcissism” Podcast.
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WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

I really think this will help you make the most of what I’m going to be revealing over the course of the podcast and I hope you’re as excited to tune in as I am to share!

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Episode 3 – Part 2: Origins of Narcissism



Welcome to Episode 3 of this special “Rethinking Narcissism” Podcast.

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WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

I really think this will help you make the most of what I’m going to be revealing over the course of the podcast and I hope you’re as excited to tune in as I am to share!

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Episode 4 – Part 3: Recognizing and Coping with Unhealthy Narcissism



Welcome to Episode 4 of this special “Rethinking Narcissism” Podcast.
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WHY RETHINK NARCISSISM?

People ask, “Why rethink narcissism?” and sometimes they get a little confused from the title that somehow I’m talking about how great narcissism is – that’s not what this book is about at all. In fact, it draws on many of the most promising and recent research findings that we have in understanding narcissism and includes my own research in helping people understand narcissism in a different way, which gives you a much clearer path through all of this than we’ve ever had before.

THE NARCISSISM TEST

If you haven’t already done so, I suggest you go to The Narcissism Test on www.drcraigmalkin.com/the-narcissism-test and take the brief online version of the measure my colleagues and I have developed (The Narcissism Spectrum Scale) to see where you or your loved ones score (if you want to take it as if your loved one was taking it; many people have).

I really think this will help you make the most of what I’m going to be revealing over the course of the podcast and I hope you’re as excited to tune in as I am to share!

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