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What Causes Echoism?

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0:00 Intro
0:44 Review of echoism as a trait
1:40 How does echoism develop?
4:54 The difference between echoism and narcissism

What Causes Echoism?

Echoism emerges through an interaction of nature and nurture— the clash between an emotionally sensitive temperament (a set of wired-in biological behavioral tendencies) and environment that requires us to be “smaller” to survive and maintain relationships. In this video, I discuss what precisely engenders echoism and provide insight into the differences between echoism and narcissism.

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The 7 Most Common Signs of Echoism

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0:00 Intro
0:40 Review of Narcissism and Echoism
3:32 Questionnaire for Echoism
4:58 Scoring

The 7 Most Common Signs of Echoism

Echoism is a trait or adaptation (not a disorder) that people often develop in response to narcissistic parenting. In this video, I review our research-validated questionnaire that measures echoism and explain what the questions reveal about your self- perception and relationships. I also show you how to interpret the results and what they might mean for you.

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INDIEBOUND: www.indiebound.org/book/9780062348111
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Are Echoists Passive?

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0:00 Intro
0:36 Review of Echoism
1:26 Passive Echoism
2:10 Active Echoism

Are Echoists Passive?

I was asked by a community member if echoists are passive. In this video, I share some information about two forms of echoism, both passive and active, and what they look like in relationships.

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BARNES & NOBLE: www.barnesandnoble.com/noresults/9780062348104
INDIEBOUND: www.indiebound.org/book/9780062348111
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The Biggest Barrier to Leaving a Bad Relationship

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00:00 Intro
00:33 What’s the biggest barrier to leaving a bad relationship?
01:35 What is defensive empathy ?
03:13 What does defensive empathy look like in relationships?
05:04 How do you recognize and break out of defensive empathy in relationships?

The Biggest Barrier to Leaving a Bad Relationship

Bad relationships often blind us to what’s important to us, or push us towards ignoring what we’re thinking or feeling in favor of the other person’s POV. Defensive empathy is one of the most powerful (and confusing) mechanisms people fall into when dealing with narcissistic friends, partners and family members. In this video, I share some examples of defensive empathy– and how you can recognize and break the cycle when it affects you and your relationships.

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Insecure Passion and Narcisissm

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00:00 Intro
00:40 What is insecure passion?
04:09 Insecure passion with narcissistic partners
04:45 How to “cure” insecure passion?
05:52 What is secure passion?

Insecure Passion and Narcissism

Insecure passion can keep you stuck in an unhealthy relationship by enhancing attraction through a general “jolt” to the nervous system, often called “arousal” (not the sexual kind). There are ways to move from insecure passion to secure passion, though. In this video, learn about the difference between insecure and secure passion, its role in attraction to narcissistic partners, how to recognize which version of passion is at play, and–even more importantly–the “cure” that helps you finally move away from unhappy relationships and towards the kind of excitement that comes with healthier relationships.

AMAZON: www.amazon.com/dp/0062348116/keywords=psychology%20books?tag=imprintweb-20
ITUNES/APPLE: books.apple.com/br/book/rethinking-narcissism/id929341420?l=en
BARNES & NOBLE: www.barnesandnoble.com/noresults/9780062348104
INDIEBOUND: www.indiebound.org/book/9780062348111
BOOKS-A-MILLION: www.booksamillion.com/p/Rethinking-Narcissism/Craig-Malkin/9780062348111?id=8510117162309
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