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Why Exploitation and Entitlement in Narcissism are so Destructive

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0:00 Intro
0:52 Review of EE
2:55 What does the research teach us about exploitation, entitlement, and narcissism?
5:38 What does EE predict in narcissistic personalities?

Why Exploitation and Entitlement In Narcissism Are So Destructive

Exploitation and entitlement are the two most destructive aspects of narcissistic personality. These, along with empathy impairments, create risky—and even dangerous—relationships. In this video I review what EE is, and how it shapes narcissistic personality on multiple levels.

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Narcissistic Rage – What Drives it and How to Respond

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0:00 Intro
0:32 One Source of Narcissistic Rage
2:03 Second Source of Narcissistic Rage
3:10 How to Respond to Narcissistic Rage

Narcissistic Rage: What Drives it and How to Respond

The topic of narcissistic rage came up in the comments, so I created this video in response. I discuss two of the major sources of narcissistic rage and how you should respond to protect yourself.

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The One Sign of Pathological Narcissism You’ve Never Heard Before: Part II

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The One Sign of Pathological Narcissism You’ve Never Heard Before: Part II
Following up with my previous video, here I clarify that covert and overt narcissism lead to childhood stories that may seem vastly different, but they share one common feature.

Narcissism seems to be born of neglect and abuse, both of which are notorious for creating an insecure attachment style (for more on attachment, see here www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/romance-redux/201211/five-ways-overcome-feelings-neediness and here www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/romance-redux/201206/are-secure-relationships-the-key-exciting-life).

But the very fact that narcissists, for all their posturing, are deeply insecure, also gives us an easy way to spot them. Insecurely attached people can’t talk coherently about their family and childhood; their early memories are confused, contradictory, and riddled with gaps. Narcissists often give themselves away precisely because their childhood story makes no sense, and the most common myth they carry around is the perfect family story. If your date sings their praises for their exalted family but the reasons for their panegyric seem vague or discursive, look out. The devil is in the details, as they say — and very likely, that’s why you’re not hearing them.

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The Most Dangerous Behavior in Pathological Narcissism

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00:00 Intro
00:30 What’s the most dangerous behavior in pathological narcissism?
01:24 Why is denial so dangerous?
03:18 What drives pathological narcissism?
04:39 How does denial worsen
pathological narcissism?
05:43 How does denial affect relationships?

The Most Dangerous Behaviour in Pathological Narcissism

There are 3 main warning signs to consider when deciding if a relationship is safe enough to work things out, and we discuss one of them today. It’s easy to recognize denial in pathological narcissism, which helps us steer clear of other threats down the line, like multiple forms of abuse. In this video, learn the ways to recognize denial and your role in the relationship if your partner demonstrates it, so you can take steps to remain safe.

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Narcissism and Stealth Control

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00:00 Intro
00:43 What is stealth control?
01:25 What does stealth control look like in relationships?
02:21 Stealth control and overt (extraverted) narcissism
04:34 stealth control and covert narcissism
05:37 How to recognize stealth control in all narcissism

Narcissism and Stealth Control

Both overt and covert narcissists frequently exert a form of control over their partners – and while it may appear different in each type, at the core it’s the same. Stealth control restricts our options and opportunity to choose our experiences and arranges events to make sure whatever happens is on the stealth controller’s terms. In this video, learn how to recognize stealth control—and how to tell if there’s room to interact in other, healthier ways.

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